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  • in reply to: How do I stop blaming myself for not being more successful #235843
    Kelli
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    Hey there.

    One of the things that has helped me deal most with the ‘unwanted’ in my life is simply realizing that everything that happens to us is just neutral vibrational feedback and nothing more. Whatever struggles you have had in life have nothing to do with you not being good enough, smart enough, or whatever else. You just had beliefs and a view of yourself that led these types of experiences, people,etc…to come into your orbit.

    When we realize it’s feedback, all the painful stories you are telling about yourself and your circumstances no longer hold water. You see you were creating your reality the whole time–the programming just wasn’t great–and with some shifting of your inner world, you can create something new moving forward. What has already happened means nothing…like it literally means nothing because no situation has any inherent, objective meaning. Our mind is the one that assigns it.

    in reply to: Trying to stay postive post break up #235837
    Kelli
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    Hey there.

    Sending you hugs and healing energy! The one thing I would say is don’t feel pressure to ‘be positive’ about it all the time. Sure, we always want to be open to those lovely spiritual perspectives that make our pain easier to deal with, but at least in my experience, getting there is a journey that usually entails the purging of all the ‘stuff’ that makes it harder to embrace all that on a deeper level, where we truly feel that way.

    There is just as much value in that pain and those ‘bad days’ as there is in your efforts to be positive and use the situation to make positive changes in your life and yourself. If you are able to be honest with yourself, you will be able to strike that balance between indulging these moments and letting them be therapeutic and wallowing too long and then making a more conscious effort to ‘snap out of it.’

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