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November 28, 2018 at 12:40 pm #266509
Elijah1ParticipantHi Talah, the lies were me doing something when I wasn’t or not doing something when I was supposed to and another like that I will not write here as me and her spoke about it and it wasn’t a tiny lie…… I have messed with her head … Sending messages from her ex ! To see if she would stay faithful ( not that I needed to do that as she isn’t that type) and just stupid stuff I shouldn’t have done. But now I think I am going to stop fighting for her !
November 28, 2018 at 8:44 am #264407Elijah1ParticipantJust about me doing things I haven’t done or was supposedly doing and wasn’t doing them and another that I shan’t post as we spoke about it the other day. ? I have written her a letter with I think everything on it so will see what happens I guess
November 27, 2018 at 7:02 am #253653Elijah1ParticipantWell when the relationship was starting I was coughing up blood and loads of it and instead of going to the hospital I googled it and it suggested I had cancer I did send pics of how much blood I was coughing up and throwing up and I said I had cancer ? disgusted with that but I vaguely remember saying I was gonna get or I was getting chemo where as the truth couldn’t be much further from the truth as I didn’t even bother going to hospital as hate the damn places hence self diagnosis. Thats the worst one …. N yeah I definitely have said some things to her in rage or when drunk as stated in previous messages but ATM things are still sour. Thanks for your honesty
November 27, 2018 at 6:10 am #252117Elijah1ParticipantMy partner or ex partner has read through this and she says I haven’t told everything I forgot to put in the post that I had lied to her about things and thought I should let you know and some were big lies some were small can I ask what it was your partner done to you or is that personal ?
November 27, 2018 at 12:01 am #248721Elijah1ParticipantTalah you there ?
November 25, 2018 at 1:47 pm #248543Elijah1ParticipantHi Anita I have never ever abused my children and wouldn’t dream of it I have been seeing them since they were born and this last year at a contact centre.. it wasn’t until my partner pointed out that it was abuse that’s when I sought immediate help
I intend to work as long as it takes even if it’s the rest of my life … For me ! Then maybe one day she can see the change. And I shall bear in mind what you have said. Thanks
November 25, 2018 at 11:24 am #248503Elijah1ParticipantLies can be untold and hearts can mend … I will wait for her
November 25, 2018 at 11:22 am #248501Elijah1ParticipantHope you are right :+)
November 25, 2018 at 10:35 am #248489Elijah1ParticipantHi again no she isn’t the mother to my children but she was to meet them for the first time this Tuesday coming ?she has two children who I get on with very well and we have a dog together, and thing is I have hurt her more than once :+( but the second she said it was emotional abuse that was me I sought help ….. She doesn’t deserve that ??? I’m hoping you are right and thanks again
November 25, 2018 at 10:14 am #248483Elijah1ParticipantHi Talah, I am scared I have already pushed her away if I am honest…. She is a very calm, loving, down to earth person…. I think I have broken her ? I suggested couples therapy but that was declined ! Maybe it’s just too soon and I know she is still really sore from the pain I have caused with my words ?? I shall let you know how I get on with her. I genuinely couldn’t imagine her not in my life ???
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