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  • in reply to: The "If you love me, you would…" Relationships #31259
    Lydia
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    Thanks for the book recommendation Brittany,  I have  just purchased it 🙂

    I think it can be hard to find the balance of being understanding and conscientious for your partner and also making sure your needs are met, all we can do is just live in the now and enjoy the time we have with our loved ones…..if he or she  isn’t the one you end up having a loving relationship with then its still okay because maybe this was just a lesson and an experience u needed along the way.

     

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    I completely agree, I think I have mistaken ‘love’ and a ‘relationship’

    I recently fell in love and thought that meant everything else in the relationship would fall into place…but my ex boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere and then says I still love you..for me this concept is so hard to understand, why isnt love enough for him to make things work or  to want to be with me,

    I was left wondering if it was all real, and just so incredibly hurt..now im just trying to let go and adjust myself and my life back to living without him…I often reflect back on the time we shared and see that maybe I tried to hold on too tightly and had placed too many conditions and attached too many outcomes to the relationship, so when he left me I was dissapointed that things had’nt gone the way i hoped…following the path of somebody else can be easier than my own sometimes i think.

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