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  • October 8, 2014 at 10:13 am in reply to: Mind versus Heart – Should I get back together with him? #66123
    Jessenia
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    HI Rachel

    I’m Very Sorry that your going thru this right now, i could relate on what you going thru right now, i know the feeling of someone who you care for so deeply, and found that the slept with someone else even if we are not together, the mind and heart are at war, that how i like to say it, but you have to recognize your feeling and remember those feeling when your at that “place” how you felt at that time, and if you can truly forgive him and let go of the past, know his feeling and what he wants then , once you have the answer in front of you, I know you will make the right choice that will be good for you,

    If you do take him back just don’t expect high expectations, take it one day at time. Keep doing your daily life, when you were without him and nothing wrong with talking to him if you want to talk to him, but you have let be know what your feelings are and what you want, and if it doesn’t work out at least you tried your best to make it work, it your choice and nobody else, i should say who care what other think of your choice, they not living your life, if people don’t approve oh well you know, do whatever make you happy, weather it family or friends they should always support your choice even if they bad or good choices,

    I hope this help, You’ll be alright ^_^

    • This reply was modified 10 years, 1 month ago by Jessenia. Reason: spelling
    October 6, 2014 at 11:23 am in reply to: Lovers to Friends Again #66042
    Jessenia
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    Yah very true Inky, he did had a trust issue and told me himself that he didn’t trust no one, and when he broke up with me because our daily schedule was going to change, i work during the day a regular hours work schedule Monday thru Friday and he work a evening schedule from 2pm to 10 pm and his days off were Wednesday and Thursday and we used to chill after he was done with his shift. his son and my son are about the same age. his son is a couple months older then my son and they were going to be starting to go to school k grade and he the type of person he would rather take care of his son rather someone (even if he was in a relationship with someone) he wouldn’t leave him with no one but his family members, so he changed to evening to graveyard to take and pick him up from school, and at the time he was dealing with ex wife and going to court for their son and keep fight over pointless things (i think) and was already making plans to go back to school the next term , so he told me that we weren’t going to have time for each other anymore and knowing how he think he didn’t think he could trust me….so he broke up with me, and i told him that i really care for him and i really wanted to make this work but he told me that we should take a break and see if this is really what we wanted and a few month later i asked him where do we stand and he told me that he wanted to be friends and he wasn’t ready for a girlfriend and gave him his space and been trying to let go what we had and Hoping that maybe one day we can get back together hoping that their is still a chance…..

    October 6, 2014 at 10:52 am in reply to: Lovers to Friends Again #66040
    Jessenia
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    Hello Jodi,

    Thank you for responding to my post, from reading your post it did hit me, I didn’t give myself the space I needed for myself, and I gave him his space but I didn’t had a chance to give my own space that I needed to heal, I can say after a week we broke up we hangout with the kids and it was hard to tell him and interact with him after a week of the break up , at that moments it was very the hardest thing I face in a break up, but after that I cried by myself at that moment but right now I don’t know if he has feeling toward me anymore, well him being other women i really don’t think he does. its been a while since we been together and we haven’t hangout since July of this past year, we still talk and text each and call each other from time to time and always text me if i watch a show that we like watching but i do understand what your saying it’s time be selfish and take my time and my space for healing and consider looking something even better then me and my ex had Thank you Jodi

    October 6, 2014 at 9:40 am in reply to: Lovers to Friends Again #66036
    Jessenia
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    Hi Inky, Thank you for responding and taking the time for reading my topic

    I see and understand what you mean, and I did feel like that when he told me about a women that he was with, it did hurt me in a way, and tried to understand why would he tell me that, or what are intension for him saying that? I know in my head I’ve asked myself could be trying to see how would I react or what would I say ? maybe he was trying to make me jealous i don’t know i could only assume, in the end I really didn’t say Much to him about that subject and told him i don’t wanna know about that , and just let it go to another subject.. me being his ex girlfriend i don’t wanna hear that… and i understand that’s not alright to bring up those kind of subject especially with when I’m his ex girlfriend,

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