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May 24, 2013 at 1:17 pm #36084LizParticipant
Sierra,
I was once pregnant and unmarried. I married the baby’s father, and we were together for three years. He was a good guy, but we were both very young and didn’t know how to make things work. The thing is, you keep wanting the father to be somebody YOU want him to be. You have ample evidence that he is who he is. He won’t change because you want your baby to have a father.
Since you say you are able to raise a child on your own, I suggest you focus on the gift that came to you, your baby. Please don’t do as I did, and resent your baby for changing your life in a way you didn’t plan. There are larger plans at work in your life — and the father’s. See the blessing, not the wrong, and you will do well. Let go of the father. You know he’s not for you.
Spirit will support you as you raise a healthy, beautiful child. I know it.
May 14, 2013 at 2:14 pm #35566LizParticipantThey tell you in meditation to notice your thoughts, then let them go and return to your mantra, your breathing, or whatever you were focusing on in meditation. I find when I close my eyes to meditate, enlightening thoughts and insights come to me.
Right now, I’m dealing with sadness and regrets related to my ex-husband’s losing battle with cancer. So when I close my eyes, I focus on Spirit being what we all really are, not our bodies, names, personalities or politics. And when we leave our bodies, we’re merely getting out of the earth-suits we took on to interact in the physical world. Then our Spirit once again joins all of Spirit. As I experience the sadness of losing a friend, I can be grateful that soon, he will leave behind an earth-suit that has been very painful to wear for months. And his Spirit will return to Spirit. Only by letting go of the physical can we once again become Spirit — free, unlimited, and eternal.
I welcome any thoughts from others about life and death.
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