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  • #333877
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    Hi Inky,

    Yes, if I delete his number, he can always call me. I don’t have him blocked or anything.

    It’s funny that you mention a metaphysical workshop because I had the same thought myself! It’s also funny because even though all kinds of things were said and the blowup was pretty bad, I feel that we will somehow reconnect. There is so much going on right now-I have intensified my spiritual journey this year and I think this is all just a part of it! When my friend told me I make too many assumptions, I really took a step back and am currently examining some of his criticisms. Although he is/was surface-y, I had a strong feeling that if the friendship was conducted differently, we could help each other grow so much. I guess, despite the friendship going over the cliff, it is still helping me so much, and I do hope that he takes a step back and look at his own actions as well. Maybe we won’t be on our spiritual journeys together, but if somehow we were both a good catalyst for them, then what more can really be asked for.

    Thank you so much for taking time out to comment on my post. It truly means so much to me. 🙂 🙂 🙂

    #333835
    LK
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    Also,

    Any advice and tips on how to forgive myself for ruining the friendship?

    *hugs*

    #333831
    LK
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    Inky,

    You are so right. It was terrible timing and things really got out of hand. Since this is where I am now, I wonder if I should delete my friend’s number? It is disheartening to see his name in my phone and also see that I am blocked on Whataspp.

    #333657
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    Thank you Peggy and Anita for your beautiful insight. *hugs*

    I think I’m going to have to let this one go and focus on all the good areas of my life. I will take what I can learn from it, but I can’t change what I did/said and I really have no way to reach this friend. We don’t have the same social circle, live in different cities, and he might truly be sincere about never wanting to hear from me again. If he told me that, I feel as if I have no choice but to believe him. I figure he is the one who has me blocked and if he ever wants to talk it out, he can unblock me. I don’t want to beat myself up over it any more because the feeling is awful.

     

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