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LoveParticipantI just psted a k lo long response and sadly it disappeared. D you have an email or messenger or a way we could simply cht, id love to talk t you more about this withut having to risk losing everything I typed lol. Thanks
LoveParticipantThanks @anite.
Let me give you a little snippet of what it’s like. We got home from dinner, I said I wanted to lay down in the bedroom and she should probably eat in the living room.. well later on she took it as I was “not letting her eat in her own bedroom” which is totally not what I meant. ? She got pissed off and “kicked me out” I had “20, then 10 then 5 mins to pack n leave” “I better figure something out”
So feeling like I had no option
I texted and called an old friend to pick me upASAP
She flipoed out and bottom line shegt cops involved and texted him pretending to be me saying about a restraining order etc, yu get the idea..
Then after sll this xv she says you know we couldve talked. As in I feel set up, tested, and controlled by isolation.
How can she force or threaten to kick me out yet when I do she cuts off my only resource. Now she has my phone..Like I saidthis is one of the more major incidents, now we’re acting like everything is status quo..
So, what do I take away from all this..LoveParticipantAwww Thank you ! It’s so overwhelming, and sad to say talking online is my only release. I’ll keep posting 🙂
LoveParticipantWhat’s a good plan b
LoveParticipantThanks.. itd be helpful to have a plan b if plan a doesn’t work
LoveParticipantThanks @Sandy
That means a whole lot! Im trying my best, my best friend said I should have a plan b, c, etc if it doesn’t work. Any suggestionsLoveParticipantThank you for being the first to reply. I appreciate that you can come from an experienced standpoint. I mean ive been “comfortable” almost 8 years. Ive basically taken on rule ed of maid, husekeeper, caretaker, nurse, pet carer, cook, and helping with her through all of it.. not exactly the place I want to be in like. Shes 13 years older and in bad health.. im nearing to 30 and we married I was 20, so I want to recreate my life again.not trying to be selfish, or say she is a burden or anything, but im not livig for me im living for her and its really been a feeling o of “how I can be of use to her” we’re basically dependent on each other, her moreso because I’ve starched to detatch myself as a “lover and wife” but TV im still at odds struggling with the disrespectfulness. I mean the things she says, the way she comes off, her mannerisms and body language can quite frankly be ugly and hurtful. I know shes aware… shes very smart. Im just concerned A for my emotional and mental healthTV andB if I can stay motivated to do what I have to do to move forwardr for myself.
Shes on meds and tried therapies and dven couple therapy. ? Shes very independent, in the sense she doesn’t want anyone “telling her what to do” even her mother, even if they have her best interest at heart -
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