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  • #434698
    Franco
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    I forgot to add that even though we had very brief conversations we never formally introduced ourselves but I think it’s a negligible detail, or I introduce myself in the message but I don’t think it’s necessary because the name and surname are already out on social media

    #434694
    Franco
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    I was thinking of writing her this message: hello, can I ask you for some information, I saw from your photos that you were in Berlin, since we were organizing a trip with some friends of mine we were thinking of taking it into consideration as a destination, would you recommend it to me? Or write to her directly that I would like it I don’t know how to know her better, tell me. or I know that she is from a small town near mine, I saw that we have mutual friends on social media, I would like to ask these friends if they know her well in person and maybe let me meet her in person, because honestly I don’t feel comfortable where she works

    #434652
    Franco
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    I saw from the profile photos that this girl has been to Berlin and other places that I would like to visit, I could ask her for information on these destinations since I was thinking of visiting them, if she recommends them to me and maybe start a conversation from there, or go direct and write I’d like to know you if you like

    #434648
    Franco
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    yes last night I Don’t have rested very well because I was thinking of it, I took a nap in the afternoon and now I feel better. we can talk when you want about Emotion Regulation.
    a friend of mine the only person who know that I like this girl,after I told what happened yesterday have told me to not catastrophize the event because It happen frequently when a man is interested in a woman to act a little awkward happen to everybody, sometimes talking with a friend is helpful he suggested like you play the card of message her on istagram, but I don’t know what to write to start the conversation, life is short I want to know her =)

    #434629
    Franco
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    I thank you for your availability, we can talk about it whenever you want. at a certain point I remember pretending to cough out of embarrassment 🙂 even a friend of mine told me not to think about it because it doesn’t mean that girl thinks badly of me and to try contacting her on Instagram

    #434623
    Franco
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    Maybe I’ll think about it later, for now I don’t want to think about it for a few days,

    #434620
    Franco
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    I had a small talk with her about the commercial transaction

    Her colleague was Laughing at me because I acted anxious she looked in my eyes, I dont know what to do, I laugh about it know but in that moment I wished to not have existed

    #434612
    Franco
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    I went to the shop where he works with the excuse of refilling but I stopped after a while and got anxious and his colleague started laughing and I think I made a bad impression

    #434491
    Franco
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    thanks to you all for the advice

    #434449
    Franco
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    1. I’ve had some short chat with her, and I was thinking of going to talk in person where she work when she is alone in the shop  to break the ice, and after a few days send a message on istagram and tell her that I like to know  her better, if She seems interested I will ask her out for a coffe or a drink.
    2. The rejection hurt so much at the time that I don’t pursued any romantic relationship, in retrospect I know that I shouldn’t react in that way I was young and naive 10 years ago,but insecurities stopped me
    3. The fear I had  In the last years  are that girls thinking bad of me because of my lack of experiences
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