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    Luna
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    We did not talk in person, we were chatting through instant messaging, we were just chatting in general and he said in his words that he thought he was wasting my time with him and that Maybe we don’t continue this.

     

    It was pretty late and I wanted to call him but his son was sleeping with him so he couldn’t talk.

     

    So it was all very wishy-washy then the next day he messaged me to say he felt bad upsetting on me and he’d really like to stay friends.

     

    Since then the communication has almost been like normal as if nothing has happened, just everyday chat like it would have been.

    We’ve talked a little about possibly staying friends but other than that it’s been a bit weird

     

    We are due to meet up tomorrow I’m not sure if I’m going to be well enough but I really think it’s important to see him.

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    Luna
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    Thanks Anita

    Since I have known him I have been able to go out for a meal or a drive and also spend time at his house, the last few months I have had a relapse so am able to do less, i don’t believe this is the reason for the break up.  I’m probably a little scared to ask the actual reason as like I said I feel my self esteem is quite low regarding my illness, do you think it’s important for closure to know the reason why so I stop guessing or is it best to just let it go.

     

    Your suggestion of trialing a friendship sounds like a great starting point, I know he will support the decision either way

    I would love to keep the friendship as like I say he is important to me and also I have limited support apart from him.

     

    It’s funny you mention the meditation as I have started doing that this morning and felt a little peace for the first time in days, I’m also planning to on getting some new bedding to change how my room looks and feels

    Thank again. 🙂

     

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