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  • July 30, 2014 at 12:11 am #62196
    Mash
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    HI David!
    Thank you for your reply and your story. I feel practically the same as you..

    The only difference is that I have relationship but he doesn’t, he’s alone for more than 1 year. He had told me a little about his last relationship before we falled in something deeper than just friends.. He said that he felt OK in this situation (without GF). Actually he’s very energetic, friendly and smiling person that’s why I loved him at first sight. Later he wrote that I changed his mind, he understand that he needs love and I’m the first girl from that time who made him feel in another way, happy..

    He wants to visit my city, to come someday. And I want it 2 but on the other hand I’m afraid. I don’t know what could happen if he comes.

    He made me think of my life in another way. Like is it my life that I live now? Is it what I want it to be? I’m a little older than 20 and my life is already like routine.. working all days, cooking, sometimes meeting with friends, sometimes going to the countryside, in few years I’ll marry my BF, will have a child or 2. And maybe it’s not so bad way to live but it’s routine, it’s like everybody live but are they happy? It’ boring, each day looks the same as another..

    I always wanted to travel a lot, to see different countries, meet interesting people, know another cultures and my friend has the same desire but my BF not. He’s always working, working a lot, he doesn’t like travelling though for me he tries to love it.

    Ahh that’s complicated question. I know it’s like two ways to choose: my soul and desire or confidence in 2morrow. My past experience made me need a lot in confidence so it’s gonna be very hard..

    Best regards.

    July 29, 2014 at 5:38 am #62046
    Mash
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    Hi VK!

    I had maybe a little the same situation with you. It was a very big love, I thought it was love of my whole life because it was first. And first time I felt like I was totally happy.
    But he had some problems with aggression and jealousy. It’s lasted several years. Very painful break up.

    That time I thought I’ll remember him 4rever and truly yes I remember him still but only like experience that gave me a lot.. wisdom actually the main. Now you should definitely know what you deserve, what you could put up with.

    I’m happy that I had this relationship and this person in my life even that we don’t communicate with each other.

    But suprisingly very soon I met person who was like a miracle that got me from my terrible life (he was like a very good friend first time). I became another person and I falled in love till nowadays, it’s more than 2 years.But it’s another love, another feeling more mature.

    So the answer on your questions is yes. I’m happy that it was like this though I was like you confused about these questions.

    I think if it’s yours it will be so. Don’t worry that you’ll live with this pain 4ever. No, definitely no.

    Best wishes.

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