Hi Friend,

It’s easy to be overly concerned with how we look. We live in a society that places an enormous pressure on women to be beautiful all the time. With so much focus on your looks you’re unable to see the beauty inside, which is what people remember you for. Some of the most magnetic people I’ve met in life weren’t “lookers” they owned their inner truth and this was absolutely memorizing and energizing to be around. Just be you, maybe get off social media for some time to take a step back and see how it’s limiting your perspective.

Hello friend,

It seems you are putting enormous pressure on yourself to achieve this “something” that will make it all worthwhile. Your life, the process of getting to know yourself through the ups and downs is what it’s all about. If you don’t enjoy the ride then you aren’t moving towards the right destination. Once you let go of the pressure to “be somebody” and to actually accept your situation you will feel totally open to what life throws your way. It’s about putting out what you want to the universe, working your way towards it and letting things come to you. And the whole being somebody thought…just be a good person, people will remember you. Your effect on others is the biggest currency there is… (watch Jim Carrey’s commencement speech, it is wonderfully brilliant). Turn inward!