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February 2, 2019 at 9:16 pm #278313February 2, 2019 at 8:27 pm #278307MGParticipant
Dear All,
I understood what you all suggested me but I will tell you why it is difficult for me. I just had a casual talk with my bf and he felt that I am not talking properly with him. He told me that I am his everything and if I take any negative strp or breakup with him then he will be destroyed completely. He is already in depression because of his current marriage and now He says if I don’t support him then he will never be able to set in his life..
Becuase of his condition it always gets difficult for me to leave him in worst situation.
February 2, 2019 at 12:33 pm #278277MGParticipant@Michelle your words have hit me hard. When you said that i have no confidence or self esteem it just made me realise that i m being someone who i m not. Your words have given me lot of courage. I am gonna be strong and end it.
February 2, 2019 at 12:30 pm #278275MGParticipant@anita thanks for baring a stupid version of me and helping me through. Yes i will end this relation with him. Will take a day to collect the corage and then will do it.
Thanks for your help.
February 2, 2019 at 6:03 am #278189MGParticipantDear Anita,
We are in a relationship. Not the physical relation but yes we are in love with each other. Considering all the things we discussed so far, i am clear that I will have to break up with him so that he can stay happily with his wife and I can move ahead. Now I just need help to understand as how shall I breakup. Shall I update him that we are breaking up and we wont talk or should i slowly stop the chats and then gradually end it?
February 1, 2019 at 7:03 pm #278151MGParticipant@Mark, no it is not anything about sex. Its just about all the chats we did and the way we cared for each other. You are right when you say that I have to kust take my decision but I am becoming weak and not able to take that decision. Should i directly go and tell him that we need to end it or should I just gradually slow down everything and eventually stop it?
February 1, 2019 at 7:00 pm #278149MGParticipant@Anita..I would like to clarify something here. I am not really afraid of him. I am just afraid that how he will handle himself once I left. Yes he is angry man but he doesnt misbehave with me. He has always been nice to me. Currently I just want to break up all love related relations with him so he can accept his wife and be happy with her. I am a very positive person so I know I will move on and handle myself but I am kust worried of him.
February 1, 2019 at 10:25 am #278085MGParticipantNo I don’t want to be with him but when i see him getting emotional because of me, i don’t understand what to do and i end up going with flow. Should i be hard and just hurt him? Currently i know that I should end this relation but i am not able to take the decision. I am not able to hurt him. Also since we meet every day at office, it is getting even harder.
He is very angry and difficult man.
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