Hi Anita,

By connecting to God, I simply mean where I am able to talk to him in my mind and where I can feel peace whenever I think of him. And currently I am not able to do.

In regards to the affair, yes I still do have it. But as per our discussion, I didnt have any physical things. We just talk and share everything.

Here, I want to know if I should follow any spiritual path to find the peace I am looking for.

Thanks.

Dear Anita,

The employees have complained to same department managers and their just superiors. But I am not thinking of approaching anyone from same department. I am thinking to approach someone who is the real owner. To be honest I dont have owner’s contact details also. All I will do is just search them on Google and see if I can reach out to someone.

Hi Anita,

He told me that he will do it for once and then I can decide what I want. Anyways i have told him that we wont do it.
I believe for next few days this topic wont cone up because anyways I m not going to meet hik. So maybe I can observe his reaction when I meet him.

Hi Anita,

Today I asked him many questions about his sex life and he answered all of them. Today due to work related issues he was very upset. I updated him that now on we wont have any physical relation and he said yes fine. We won’t have. I will follow your orders. It seemed to me that he was upset so he said that. I didn’t drag the discussion and we discussed other things then.

After 4-5 hours he messaged me that after lockdown which would probably end in next 15-20 days, he wants to hug me for once as we are away from each other for last 1 month and after that we can stop. He also told that it would be just for once. Then I told him that if we do it for once then we will feel to do again and again on which he said for now just think of once and we think other things later.

I ended discussion with him saying that it won’t be possible for me to do this and he said don’t think about it for now. Just take care of yourself.

That’s all what we discussed.

Dear Anita,

Your message is such a big relief to me. Because cutting off all contacts from him is surely difficult for me but stopping the physical things is super easy for me. We have very rarely had such times so it is nothing major to stop that. I still want to ask that of i talk to him after office hours on chat then will it harm his personal life or my life? Or i should let things move slowly like reduce talking then slowly stop etc?

Hi Anita,

I totally agree with you. How do I tell him to end all this. I will put points in front of me and i wont be able to break it. So i will be end up being in his life. What is your suggestion on this?

Hi Anita,

He does have his parents but he cannot share things with them because they are strict and they do not have such friendly environment. I insisted him to talk to his mother or brother about our situation but he doesn’t want me to talk because he says that divorce process is not so easy and it will destroy his family.