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Miracle88ParticipantThank you all for the feedback.
Miracle88ParticipantHi Anita and Mark,
Thank you for your input. I am putting effort to make my life work for me. It is not easy, yet I am still trying to get through and make it happen for myself. Applying for more positions, talking/networking and praying/yoga/meditation. I feel emotionally horrible, but what else can I do. Meaning in life is different to everyone. I never thought about my life until I was 25. At 25 I thought about life a lot. I started thinking about how to make sense out of my life. I feel hopeless most days. However, I am continuing life trying to get through the day. I imagined I would be married by now, have a good career but that never happened. So I watch as all my peers move on with their life daydreaming of a day when things work out for me.
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Miracle88
Miracle88ParticipantAnita,
I chose my name Miracle88 because my real name means miracle. However, I really do need a miracle right now in my life. I am barely surviving emotionally.
Thanks,
Miracle88
Miracle88ParticipantRebecca- Thank you! I will read this one.
Anita- Indian and American culturesMiracle88ParticipantPutting 18 years in writing is pretty difficult. However, I can say growing in the culture clash was very challenging for me. I felt like I didn’t fit in either society. Always conflicted between two worlds.
Miracle88ParticipantI was bullied in schools. I didn’t have a lot of consistent friendships. I felt lost in this world. I felt very sad all the time. I terrible anxiety and depression.
Miracle88ParticipantMy childhood was interesting. I had great family support. However growing up in an Indian Society I felt ostracized by what people would say in judgement. I was constantly judged and sized up. I felt that I was never good enough from the indian perspective. I feel that growing up between two cultures was very challenging.
Miracle88ParticipantHi Anita,
I have gone to counseling but still suffer. I am unemployed and am still single…so that doesn’t help the situation.Miracle88ParticipantHello Anita,
I was speaking of the the day to day problems and how to come through them.Miracle88ParticipantHi Leila,
Its been 19 months from yesterday and I was looking at my graduation photos and amazed on how different I was then. Somehow my personality has changed immensely over the last 1 year and 7 months. Life does that to you. I feel that perhaps pain can transform us and help us gain interpersonal growth. I personally practice yoga almost daily as well meditate. Meditation really helps. Yoga is also a beautiful practice that can help clear the mind and help alleviate the emotional pain. I for one, have utilized these things as I am dealing with extreme emotional pain. Life can be rough sometimes but utilize your outlets to find who you are as a person. Self help books are amazing. Yoga, meditation and surrounding yourself by positive people who uplift you is also integral. I wish you all success and happiness in the world, and lets hope for beautiful times soon, for the both of us!Best Regards,
Miracle88Miracle88ParticipantThanks to you all. 🙂
Miracle88ParticipantHi Maddie,
I read your post. I feel that a lot of things in life are not always understood. There are so many things in life that we do not have a reason for. For instance, poverty would be an example of that. The truth of the matter is every person in this world has to be happy for what they have. Comparison is the key to unhappiness.In reading your post, you seem to be an extremely intelligent, highly educated and driven individual. I feel that if you look at what you are as a person you will find so many wonderful things about yourself. A lot of people don’t get into relationships until later on, but confidence is everything. Believe in yourself. Write down ten things you love about yourself and I am sure you will find how amazing, strong and wonderful you really are as a person. Talking to a counselor could also help you.
I wish you the very best,
Miracle88December 9, 2014 at 3:14 pm in reply to: Fear of failure and not "fitting in" in career choice.. #68999Miracle88ParticipantFrom my experience, look at your resume and see what stands out. For instance, have you interned in a certain type of place. Look for patterns in your resume. Additionally, find out where your passion is. What do you love to do in terms of your career. Sometimes what you love to do, and you have experience in is what would be the best fit for you. Explore your options. Talking to career counselor would also help.
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Miracle88ParticipantI think situations can be difficult in many ways, but the pain that we all feel at times is very similar. I for one, have been unemployed for over a year in a half and am in my mid-twenties. I am really stressed out. I feel that your situations is different, but I get from the point of view of uncertainty. Uncertainty is so anxiety provoking because your unsure what will happen. I know from the experiences in my life, meditation, yoga, positive music and prayer has helped me. I am not sure if these are things you can put into your schedule but you may want to try them. Talk to your healthcare professional and sometimes talking to a therapist can help.
I wish you the best of luck.
Miracle88
Miracle88ParticipantHi Crystal,
I feel that with anything in life the more you run after something the harder it becomes. Sometimes you just have to let go of the anxiety about it and let life happens. That doesn’t mean you stop looking for the right person, it just means you let go of the fear and anxiety and wondering when things will happen. Things will happen at the right time. Have faith. Love yourself and be positive and good things will come your way.I wish you the very best.
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