Well I think he even asking the question whether or not to forgive them is the wrong question to ask. It seems you’re focusing more on who to blame or how much blame they deserve rather than what you can do to genuinely help your self. What guys react funny and complicated situations and that certainly sounds like a complicated situation. And the reason I’m stressing this is because the faster you are able to forgive the faster you going to be able to heal yourself. I know it sounds ludicrous at this point but trust me I’ve been there. Everyone seems so evil because they have certain imperfections. And don’t think that I’m taking sides or anything I’m just saying that the healing process has to begin somewhere. Distance yourself for a while if you can but always remember that you will want to come back and you will cherish every moment with your family. Well that’s my opinion anyway. 🙂

You seem to be in a very bad place. Please don’t take this the wrong way but I honestly believe based off of what you have written that your family is really just trying to help and that I love you very much. To be honest the hardest thing for parents to do is to take their child out on her own so that’s probably why they don’t do it because they love you. I understand that things are hard but please try to see things through their eyes. To explain the boys behavior most men will try to avoid conflict and I see it coming. So I don’t think that they are ignoring you or your problem. If I struck a nerve I’m sorry I’m only trying to help. Again I’m only basing this off of information that you have gien me so I may not have enough to make a judgement call. But I know what it’s like to see everyone else’s. The enemy when you’re having problems yourself. And I’! not judging I have my own problems I’m going with as well but if I can help I will. Have a great day