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  • January 2, 2014 at 10:21 am #48193
    Jan
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    I m losing myself again n again..
    I have my bf email access..n it’s hurt me so much ..
    I wish to delete everything tat I had read ..
    I wish to forget what I knowing..
    But…its doesn’t work

    January 2, 2014 at 1:51 pm #48197
    Pamela
    Participant

    I’m sorry you discovered some painful reality. I have snooped many times and have found out very painful things. If I were you, I would not act on what you discovered yet. Give yourself some time to get strong and stable. Being stable is more important than being strong, in my opinion.

    January 2, 2014 at 10:32 pm #48216
    Mark
    Participant

    Jan,
    So I wonder what is keeping you from either talking to him about the emails or to leave him?
    I assume that the emails have something about how he thinks of you and/or the relationship?

    Mark

    January 2, 2014 at 11:16 pm #48218
    Jan
    Participant

    I have been couple with him 3years..in these years I was giving him my best..I plan for our future..I suggest him a better job..I ask him to be nice to his family..when these things had become real..he forget me..he wanted to delight every women ..so..what’s is the point for him to paid it all to me?i feel hurts n hurts.

    January 2, 2014 at 11:20 pm #48221
    Jan
    Participant

    Mark…I told him that I know bout the secret behind him…
    The answer he give me..they are only my friends..
    And after all…he didn contact me anymore….
    And yet we r far apart right nw…I m in Dubai…he is in Malaysia..

    January 3, 2014 at 8:01 am #48234
    Mark
    Participant

    It takes time to heal and move on Jan. Best to break all contact with him, block his texts and emails and focus on the present moment. Live your life. I like what the Dalai Lama said, “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”

    Focus on others rather than dwell on your pain. Go and help and be in service. Volunteer.

    January 3, 2014 at 9:59 am #48254
    jon
    Participant

    I think Mark is right. I don’t necessarily agree with cutting off altogether. However I do agree that if you give it some time… things will not seem nearly is catastrophic as they seem at this time.

    January 3, 2014 at 9:25 pm #48358
    Jan
    Participant

    Thanks for the advice..I will try my best ..even I know that it’s need time to be stop everything..we are not a kids anymore..if it too late for him to realise what is actually happen between us..take Tis as a experiences and there is always a better life..:)
    Thanks again..

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