I’m sorry you discovered some painful reality. I have snooped many times and have found out very painful things. If I were you, I would not act on what you discovered yet. Give yourself some time to get strong and stable. Being stable is more important than being strong, in my opinion.
I have been couple with him 3years..in these years I was giving him my best..I plan for our future..I suggest him a better job..I ask him to be nice to his family..when these things had become real..he forget me..he wanted to delight every women ..so..what’s is the point for him to paid it all to me?i feel hurts n hurts.
Mark…I told him that I know bout the secret behind him…
The answer he give me..they are only my friends..
And after all…he didn contact me anymore….
And yet we r far apart right nw…I m in Dubai…he is in Malaysia..
It takes time to heal and move on Jan. Best to break all contact with him, block his texts and emails and focus on the present moment. Live your life. I like what the Dalai Lama said, “If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.”
Focus on others rather than dwell on your pain. Go and help and be in service. Volunteer.
Thanks for the advice..I will try my best ..even I know that it’s need time to be stop everything..we are not a kids anymore..if it too late for him to realise what is actually happen between us..take Tis as a experiences and there is always a better life..:)