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  • in reply to: My heart didn't want to break up, but I had to #43806
    Ciara
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    Hi there, I have honestly experienced a very similar situation but it was with a friend I had feelings for. If you know deep down it is the right thing to do, even though it hurts for awhile it is the right thing to do. Just because it hurts now does not mean it is the wrong decision. Obviously you feel hurt, its a normal reaction to the situation if you didn’t feel anything that would be a worry. If this problem of hers will continue effecting the relationship then there can be no relationship it is simple as that/. Trust me, I have felt a lot of heartbreak and even though it hurts so terribly right now and its all you can think about, it will get better, I promise, there will be a day when you no longer feel that sadness and you will be able to properly move on with your life. from your replies I can tell that even though you are sad some part of you is glad that you made this decision and deep down inside you know it was the right thing to do for both you and her, ( it might help he realise that getting help is the best thing)

    in reply to: Toxic friendships #43664
    Ciara
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    Thank you so much, This was very helpful to hear. You are right, even though it hurts now it’ll get better and this person only made me feel horrible about myself ( without intending to ofcourse) and there is no point holding onto a relationship that will only hurt..I guess I held onto it for so long because we could always make each other laugh but you’re right .. it doesnt matter if the relationship is just causing more harm than good, thank you for you’re kind words and words of hope, 🙂

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