I thought as much.
Her demands were more of the emotional demands. Like on her birthday I took time and went the extra mile to order for a cake for her and send someone to deliver at her door step. she was happy that day do you know what? after two days we fought for an unreasonable reason. something that at the end of the day I dont know the reason for the fight. I thought by doing that she will be happy and cheerful and there will be peace in the relationship. We fight for unreasonable reasons. I have told her I hope she is not comparing our relationship to other people’s own, she say No and will then ask her so what is the problem why are you always wanting us to quarrel. For instance she may tell me I dont text her enough I will try and adjust only for her to say again I dont call enough, I will try again only for her to say I don’t say I love you enough I will do that only for her to bring up something else again. it really choked me and drained me emotionally. This I told her during the break that she was draining me emotionally and didnt treat me right.

I am trying to explain the situation to you. Because you will see the situation from an unbiase side view.

• This reply was modified 7 years, 10 months ago by neversaynever.

I have told her my needs, i told the most important thing was peace and love. There will be peace for a while only for her to complain about something else again, after that one is solve another complain comes up again. it was never ending.
Though she depended on me for her happiness and i knew i tried to give my all, but it now looked one sided to me. It did not make me to see a future with her.
Most time we just quarrel for no just cause, at the end the day i will start asking her what are we quarreling for? No reason. I will ask her what is the problem she will not say anything.
Sometimes when i see her moody i will ask what is the moodiness for, she will tell me nothing only for her to tell me days later or never talk at all. (My thoughts though now that i am out of it – She now started paying me back for not treating her the way she likes without telling what she needs). She now started something which she has always withheld. Stopped doing things that will make me happy. (There is quote i use to use for her always. YOU GET MORE LOVE WHEN YOU SHOW LOVE. LOVE BEGETS LOVE. SHOW A LITTLE LOVE AND CARE THEN YOU WILL GET SO MUCH IN RETURN. I always say this anything i go out of confortzone to meet her demands. i use that quotes always. i mean always. Anytime we she complains again after i try to adjust to her kind of person it made her look appreciative but of my efforts.
I knew i could never satisfy her no way i will always work and work. Note: She always say this she does not believe i love her. (There is no living way i have not shown to her i love, is it by gifts, by introducing to my family, name it.. social media, name it..

Can someone like that change? Or should i just move on with my life.