That’s about it in a nut shell. Mum doesn’t require 24 hour care, she has two care visits every day, she is mobile (with a frame) and semi independent. If I moved to the US she would be well looked after but honestly I just couldn’t do it at the moment as I described in my original post this is more of a psychological escape than anything else. Moving to the States could be an aspiration but it’s certainly not the right time to be moving across the pond. I’m just confused as to why I have this yearning for pastures new since Christmas. Sorry if I am not making sense, my mind is a little chaotic right now.