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Doreen DawsonParticipant
Hi Spidey,
Goodness seems like you have gotten into a web so to speak. Based on what I was reading this girl really doesn’t know what she wants with herself and you which can hurt you in the long run, and could possibly be using you for attention. I would just move forward and focus on yourself more and not think too much about her. If she was interested in you, she would give you signs of interest and make an effort to see you as well as interact with you more. Go with your instinct if it feels strange than it is not worth your time.
You deserve better. (:
- This reply was modified 9 years, 11 months ago by Doreen Dawson.
- This reply was modified 9 years, 11 months ago by Doreen Dawson.
Doreen DawsonParticipantHi Everyone,
I have decided to learn from this lesson and give our relationship another chance, I forgave him. It makes me a stronger person to forgive than to forget everything we have shared together. I appreciate everyone who responded to me and gave me hope to move forward.
Doreen DawsonParticipantOr if I decide to stay with him, it will make him realize how important he is to me and willing to make this work even if he made this mistake. I’m just on the fence about what I should do at this point.
Doreen DawsonParticipantHi Popi,
Thank you so much for understanding, I feel like there isn’t anything I can do about his behavior. I am trying to accept it and move on. I am about ready to give up on him, since he gave up on me by choosing to do this. I know he knows right from wrong and acting this way towards me proves I am not giving him what he wants and needs. I am not blaming him at all. He might not just be ready for a relationship at this point in his life.
- This reply was modified 9 years, 11 months ago by Doreen Dawson.
Doreen DawsonParticipantHi Barbara,
I can tell you have been in a situation before similar to mine. I understand your state of mind and where you are coming from. But I feel this is a bit extreme, I know my trust has been broken and time will pass. I just need to think things through more or I will have even more regret.
Doreen DawsonParticipantThank you so much for your responses. Deep down I love him and want this to work. I called off our engagement. I just need time to forgive and move on. Maybe this is a sign that we need to focus and work on our relationship more before we settle into marriage. I don’t want to test or trap him to see what happens. If he really loves me things will change and hopefully this is a wake up call to him. And if things don’t work out and this behavior continues I will need to let go and go forward solo. I deserve to be happy and value myself more than anything and anyone.
- This reply was modified 9 years, 11 months ago by Doreen Dawson.
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