Thank you Anita for your response. To be honest it made me laugh when he said that because I couldn’t believe that this is really his response. I think it made him feel worse cause I said I think we need more energy between us and that I should be more female and he more male as we are too similar and because of that there is not much romantic emotions going on. And this is quite impimportant to me… He says he wants to be with me but “he refuses to accept my silly concerns”. I don’t want to rush into anything – I am an opposite of rushing to conclusions and acting on emotions. And because of that I don’t know how much I should accept as “life” and when I should separate.. How should I feel about my relationship after 6 almost 6 years, thinking of getting married?