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    David
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    Thanks everyone for the replies. I’ve been thinking about doing just that, checking in on her as a friend, letting her know that I understand she isn’t ready for a relationship but that I still care about her and still want to be there for her. And maybe eventually she will be, but for now I just want to build a stronger connection with her if she’s willing to let me do that. However, I’m not sure if I should keep myself open to other people or if I should really wait around for her as long as it takes, not knowing if she’ll come around or not. I really do care and feel for her, and as I stated originally talking to other people really doesn’t feel the same.

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    David
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    Thanks for the replies everyone. To me a memorable life is one where I actually feel like I’m accomplishing something. I’m not going to school this year, but I am working, I spend most nights alone while most of the friends I’ve known through the years are happy with someone they love, out doing things with other people, and just enjoying themselves. It feels like I’m incapable of doing that. I would love to make the most out of my life, not just by myself, but with other people and to be able to actually have fun without living in a constant state of worry or fear.

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    David
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    Thanks everyone for the replies, I’ve been trying to just let things happen but I’m still finding myself feeling upset.
    It’s been about a week since we talked at all. She sent me a text a few days ago about something completely unrelated to anything we talked about on the phone and I think that hurt me more than it would have if she hadn’t even said anything because it made me feel like she disregarded how I felt and didn’t even ask how I was doing. I feel unsure if I should try talking to her again, or if I should wait for her to ask me how I feel, or what I should do. I really appreciate all the advice from everyone here, thank you for taking the time to help me through this.

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    David
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    I really appreciate that reply, but I don’t like it being referred to as an electronic relationship. We’re both real people with real feelings. We used our phones and skype to communicate, but it is real. And during our conversation tonight she kept insisting that yes she did want me to visit her, but that she feels it’s a bad idea because she knows my feelings towards her and doesn’t want me to get hurt. I can’t get past this, and I feel like I’ll never be able to open up to anyone else.

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