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  • in reply to: Birthday gifts! #219249
    Preston10
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    Thanks for the reply, I will take your advice! And I will let you know how things play out!

    in reply to: Birthday gifts! #219241
    Preston10
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    He was quite upset that I wanted to take time away from him, and I told him that if you want this relationship to actually have a chance you need to prove a lot, and genuinely be sorry. Because starting a massive temper tantrums over a stuffed bear, and think it is okay and not even feel remorseful, it’s beyond immature. And if he fakes it to be sorry well I am aware of it!

    in reply to: Birthday gifts! #219235
    Preston10
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    Honestly I am taking some to think about this relationship as I have explained to him.  I cannot just forgive him like that!

    in reply to: Birthday gifts! #219231
    Preston10
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    Thank you for your responses and replies.

    I had no idea he didn’t like stuffed toys as I have sent him silly surprises before as he with me. So he made me feel quite bad, he yelled pretty much that I should know better and understand that he is a man, and not a fu***ng teenager.

    He has been under some stress due to his family as far as I know because he vented with me like I have with him. And I can understand people have bad days etc. but it doesn’t justify the things he said. He made me feel inadequate and stupid for buying him a small bear. And what destroyed me is that he doesn’t see the problem with what he said, even if he hated it he didn’t have to act like a complete moron. I don’t understand the big deal it was a small token until we could see each other as I had something planned for that, so I honestly feel a bit broken and confused. He hurted my feelings! And also when I explained that it wasn’t the actual birthday gift, it was coming later, he said I should plan better and not send shit like that!

    in reply to: Birthday gifts! #219161
    Preston10
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    The problem with forgiving is that he thinks there is nothing wrong with what he said, he was being honest and I should know how he hated stuffed toys…to be honest I had no idea because under our time together he never mentioned that. If I’d known I would not have ordered that gift, but it wasn’t meant as a childish gift just a token of my affection until we can be together.

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