Hi Anita

So here is the update. I basically also pulled away as I said. I was supposed to go see him in October, but I decided that I didn’t want to go anymore because I did not have any incentive to go. Guess what? He texted me last night and told me that the borders to the country where he lives have been temporarily closed. I don’t believe him but I can’t be bothered to find out if it is true because I already decided I wasn’t going anyway. So when he texted me that my response was “oh ok. I didn’t think you wanted me to still come” he was like “why would you think that? did I say you can’t come?” So I responded “No you didn’t but you never talked about it” he was like “oh ok”. So this morning I texted him and asked him “So since we are not meeting this year, what do you want to do?” he was like “I will wait”. So I told him “I am not willing to wait, not because I don’t want to meet him, but because he hasn’t given me any incentive for me to come see him.” His response? “Oh ok”. I would have liked for him to ask me what I meant but he did not. So I take it that he is not interested. That was a few hours ago.

Anyway. I deleted his number out of my phone. I have no way of contacting him since I did not memorize his number. I kind of feel bad because I really did like him. But I only want to like someone that also likes me not just me liking them if not I am wasting my time. Been there done that and I learnt from it. So I have let this one go 🙁

Yes it was a relief. He’s still not back 100% from the situation but at least he is communicating.

Hi Lila

Thank you for your response. You are absolutely correct with your view point. I should have just called him. He was just watching the World Cup like I mentioned in my comment.

Thank you all that responded.

Turns out he was watching the World Cup and did video chat me later. I should have just called him, but I felt he needed space. So what I realized is I should go back to doing the things I love to do to take my mind off him.