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  • in reply to: Am I taking the right approach? #222513
    PrettyInPink
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    Hi Anita

    So here is the update. I basically also pulled away as I said. I was supposed to go see him in October, but I decided that I didn’t want to go anymore because I did not have any incentive to go. Guess what? He texted me last night and told me that the borders to the country where he lives have been temporarily closed. I don’t believe him but I can’t be bothered to find out if it is true because I already decided I wasn’t going anyway. So when he texted me that my response was “oh ok. I didn’t think you wanted me to still come” he was like “why would you think that? did I say you can’t come?” So I responded “No you didn’t but you never talked about it” he was like “oh ok”. So this morning I texted him and asked him “So since we are not meeting this year, what do you want to do?” he was like “I will wait”. So I told him “I am not willing to wait, not because I don’t want to meet him, but because he hasn’t given me any incentive for me to come see him.” His response? “Oh ok”. I would have liked for him to ask me what I meant but he did not. So I take it that he is not interested. That was a few hours ago.

    Anyway. I deleted his number out of my phone. I have no way of contacting him since I did not memorize his number. I kind of feel bad because I really did like him. But I only want to like someone that also likes me not just me liking them if not I am wasting my time. Been there done that and I learnt from it. So I have let this one go 🙁

     

     

    in reply to: Am I taking the right approach? #221731
    PrettyInPink
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    thank you Anita. I always look forward to your advice. 🙂

     

    in reply to: What should I do? #216457
    PrettyInPink
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    Yes it was a relief. He’s still not back 100% from the situation but at least he is communicating.

    in reply to: What should I do? #216427
    PrettyInPink
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    Hi Anita,

    Thank you for your input. I totally agree with what you said. I’ve made friends that are hot in the beginning, but then get cold and in some cases simply ghost or go Houdini on me. While others have stayed. So this is not unusual in relationships. You are right.

    in reply to: What should I do? #216423
    PrettyInPink
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    Hi Lila

    Thank you for your response. You are absolutely correct with your view point. I should have just called him. He was just watching the World Cup like I mentioned in my comment.

    in reply to: What should I do? #216421
    PrettyInPink
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    Hi Mark

    Thanks on your take on the situation. I feel online relationships are just as valuable as face to face especially in today’s world. I have made friends online with people that I have never met in person. At some point I might meet my friend or not. Doesn’t really matter to me at this point.

     

     

    in reply to: What should I do? #216419
    PrettyInPink
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    Thank you all that responded.

    Turns out he was watching the World Cup and did video chat me later. I should have just called him, but I felt he needed space. So what I realized is I should go back to doing the things I love to do to take my mind off him.

    in reply to: She’s back but I’m taken. What should I do? #216301
    PrettyInPink
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    I agree with Anita. Let the ex be an ex and focus on the girl friend you have now. How do you know the ex is even interested in you that way? You don’t know. All you got was a text message. Chill out. You are not “doomed”

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