Hi, how are you? So here I am at boarding, I feel that my younger board mates don’t like me because they look down on me. Maybe I said something that caught them off guard about those who fall a lot and the college subject is difficult. And earlier they asked me about the accounting equation, what I said is Asset plus Liability equals Equity and the one she corrected said Asset equals Liability plus Equity . I was embarrassed and said I had forgotten because we had a law subject. And she just asked me again, she said, sister, “just the basics, our topics are very basic, sister, yours is advanced”. What should I do I feel ashamed, and everytime I talk I feel like they are not  agreed to it?

thank you, I really appreciated your explanation. Do you think it’s okay to ask my boyfriend for permission to be friends with boys because he already has friends who are girls? Also, tell him I used to avoid making friends with boys because he might be uncomfortable or not okay with him. I also avoid having a boy best friend because he doesn’t have a girl best friend. But now, he has female friends, it’s not fair to me that I don’t have male friends either. I don’t want to be unfair. If he does things without thinking about how I will feel, that is unfair to me because I think about how he will feel in all my actions. So, is it okay to be friends with boys too, and stop limiting myself?

I just want to ask, why is it so hard to trust someone who hurt you without being aware of it? Yes, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, but during our 2 years in Senior High School, he felt single. There are so many times that he is super close to women, that their closeness is more than a girlfriend. It’s these things that make me sick. We talked about it, and he apologized but my trust in him is broken. Now that we are in college, he mentioned that he has 5 female friends. I don’t know why it hurts me so much to hear this. I promised myself that I would trust him again because he is doing good things for me now. But I felt as if what he did to me would happen again. I’m not paying attention to him right now, I just want to calm down. Will this destroy our relationship?

Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate it! Next time, I will try to tell my boyfriend about this but I think he doesn’t seem to be able to defend me because he doesn’t want to disrespect his parents :(. But thank you again for your advice, I will suggest it to my boyfriend