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Is it okay for me to be mad at my boyfriend if he did something that hurts me? I always set aside this because he has family problems and I don’t want to add it. But sometimes, I’m upset of what he did.
Hi, how are you? So here I am at boarding, I feel that my younger board mates don’t like me because they look down on me. Maybe I said something that caught them off guard about those who fall a lot and the college subject is difficult. And earlier they asked me about the accounting equation, what I said is Asset plus Liability equals Equity and the one she corrected said Asset equals Liability plus Equity . I was embarrassed and said I had forgotten because we had a law subject. And she just asked me again, she said, sister, “just the basics, our topics are very basic, sister, yours is advanced”. What should I do I feel ashamed, and everytime I talk I feel like they are not agreed to it?
Did you ever tell him or express to him that you are uncomfortable with him having female friends, and if you did, how did he react?
= Every time I tell him that, he is quiet but the expression on his face is disappointed. So maybe what he thinks is that I control his life.
thank you, I really appreciated your explanation. Do you think it’s okay to ask my boyfriend for permission to be friends with boys because he already has friends who are girls? Also, tell him I used to avoid making friends with boys because he might be uncomfortable or not okay with him. I also avoid having a boy best friend because he doesn’t have a girl best friend. But now, he has female friends, it’s not fair to me that I don’t have male friends either. I don’t want to be unfair. If he does things without thinking about how I will feel, that is unfair to me because I think about how he will feel in all my actions. So, is it okay to be friends with boys too, and stop limiting myself?
(1) when he was in high school until now(he is in college)
(2) They tease each other and it hurts that that girl knows more about my boyfriend than me
(3) It is okay for me that my boyfriend has female friends but not that much closeness. I am limiting myself to be friendly to other males, why he is not limiting himself also?
I just want to ask, why is it so hard to trust someone who hurt you without being aware of it? Yes, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years, but during our 2 years in Senior High School, he felt single. There are so many times that he is super close to women, that their closeness is more than a girlfriend. It’s these things that make me sick. We talked about it, and he apologized but my trust in him is broken. Now that we are in college, he mentioned that he has 5 female friends. I don’t know why it hurts me so much to hear this. I promised myself that I would trust him again because he is doing good things for me now. But I felt as if what he did to me would happen again. I’m not paying attention to him right now, I just want to calm down. Will this destroy our relationship?
Thanks for your advice. I really appreciate it! Next time, I will try to tell my boyfriend about this but I think he doesn’t seem to be able to defend me because he doesn’t want to disrespect his parents :(. But thank you again for your advice, I will suggest it to my boyfriend
There was a time when my boyfriend posted a selfie of me and my boyfriend’s mom reacted “haha” and I was insulted. In addition, every time we go out, my boyfriend always says that his parents are proud of me because I am an intelligent, beautiful, and kind person. Maybe they just said that because they were facing their son (my boyfriend). And now his mom is leaving for another country, I didn’t visit them anymore because I wasn’t visited here at our house either. I don’t know what is the real truth if my boyfriend’s parents really like me or not.