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    Reggi
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    Thank you very much

    #279561

    Reggi
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    I think it is a good idea. I have met her once, she seemed like a nice girl, but I need her to understand that he is in a relationship with me now, I’m going to expect her to respect that. I know she has a boyfriend and I wonder if he feels the same as I do.

    I do feel selfish for not wanting him to have anything to do with her, I think an ex should be left in the past, even if she is a childhood friend. Is that wrong of me?

    I like his parents but, I would think his mom would be a little more conscientious about that subject. It all makes me think and feel that I just shouldn’t be there. “Well damn, since she’s the star around here and so perfect, why I am here”, is what goes through my head.

    But I don’t say anything because I don’t want to cause problems, I still want them to like me. I don’t say anything to my boyfriend about having her contact in his phone to keep from causing a big fight. He doesn’t even talk to her anyway, so why keep it?

    Even after all of this, I still feel like that bad guy because they grew up together, their mothers are best friend. Maybe I’m the one that needs to leave.

    #279433

    Reggi
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    Thanks again. I found that taking walks in nature is very helpful. Once winter is over, I’ll continue to do that. I think therapy is a good idea too.

    #279425

    Reggi
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    Thank you for replying. I am afraid of him getting back with her. Whenever I go to visit his parents, they talk about her a lot, “she’s going to school to be a nurse,” “she’s a good cook” it does make me feel like she is better than me.

    I have been anxious about other things, but not like this.

    I will admit to being a very anxious person and insecure. I often wonder if being in a relationship is good for me.

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