Thanks for your great response! I was so down today..
This is what i tried until now: talk as from respect because she is my mother’s mom, but that’s it.
But today, when that lady thrown to me that i should be ashamed and feel guilty… A lot of questions started in my head: am i such a bad person? Should i talk more with her? Maybe my mother is upset on me?
Thanks a lot for your time and response!