i can’t believe all of the amazing, helpful feedback i’m getting. i read your link and also into BPD; i’m not one to associate my problems to “conditions” right off the bat, but i can’t believe how every symptom with BPD matches with my own concerns. i’m so greatful you shared this, because now i feel like i know where to start. i can’t begin to express my thanks- this has helped me so much. THANK YOU!
you absolutely hit the nail on your head, especially “Because of this massive strain, either one or both of them begins to feel heavily invested, which what begins kick starts the symptoms I mentioned above.” i think investing in myself and things outside of the relationship would, as you said, help fill that void and also help me to stop making my partner responsible for filling that void- THANK YOU.
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