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  • in reply to: He went crazy and then disappeared #316285
    Samantha
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    Thank you all. I’m feeling a bit better after reading all the comments. My friend noticed that he was on tinder, with a fake age and a fake job. So we reported him. Hopefully that’ll keep other people safe also.

    in reply to: He went crazy and then disappeared #316193
    Samantha
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    Thank you all! Yes, that’s probably why I stayed with him for so long – he used to beg me to take him back, cry, told me he loved me etc. And I used to believe him. He bagged his things up and went to Spain without telling me…pretended he was still in the country and I only found out because I rang him and got the international dialling tone. I took him back for the week, then found all these things out. I feel bad also, because when I kicked him out of my apartment, he was wandering around all night with no-where to go. Even though, he told me that he had somewhere to go (his own apartment). But I don’t think he did, I think he used me. He’s blocked me on everything anyway and I can’t get in touch with him, not that I want to. But a part of me did think he would have the decency to apologise or something. Suppose people don’t think the same way. I’ve looked at trauma bonding and it’s defo something that I can relate to!

    in reply to: He went crazy and then disappeared #316025
    Samantha
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    Thank you so much, Valera. You’re completely right. I would never speak to him again, but it’s just making me feel completely crazy. The main thing is that I found these messages etc in a phone that he left at my house of girls that he was messaging etc asking for sex etc. I confronted him about it after I kicked him out and just didn’t get a response. Think that’s the thing that’s driving me crazy most of all. I’m going to get on with writing this list! Thank you again 🙂

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