Hi Edlin,

Thank you for your reply. I know we are both very unhappy he wants love, hugs, cuddles, and of course sex. I do not go there anymore because I need emotional and mental stimulation and I do not get that. I am not playing tit for tat. It is just that I do not feel loved or stimulated to go there with him anymore. He also refers to sex as f….ng and I really hate that make me feel like I am just a body to him. The fact is it feels that way too.

I have to be honest tho I am very demanding as I want and love to have the house very need and tidy. I will never even leave a teaspoon dirty and not put away. I do not think I have OCD but I like order. I feel uneasy if I have a mess around me. So I know I am not easy to live with.

Thank you for replying and giving me some insight

Thanx,

For the replies I really wanted to get more just to understand if the feeling and the emotions I have is wrong. I maybe I have no understanding of how a relationship works. I am in a confused place at the moment. If we have only been together for a year and some months does that mean we are just never gonna work if we already is so much tension and issues in this relationship????? Is it because I need and want to much from a relationship. Should I as he always says that I should just except him for what he is when it does not gel with who I am.

Should I cut my losses and just get on with my own life. I really need some help here PLEASE.