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September 9, 2020 at 7:25 pm #366489
Dear Rose of Yellow,
Thank you for your posted. I’ve been thinking and soul searching a lot these days, also going to talk to my therapist and see if she has any insight or guidance for me. Its has been a very trying time. I think it is going to be a long journey but at the end of the day I am just going to focus on my children and myself. I agree I am going to set some therapy up for them also I know it can be really hard and tough on children. I definitely think its important. As for right now I am just putting one foot and front of the other. Calming myself and just let my heart and soul guide me. Taking care of myself for once in my life.
Thank you again!
Sincerely sasseyholmesSeptember 9, 2020 at 1:27 pm #366453
I am going to talk with my therapist about this to. See what the next steps are. I am really concerned about are financials at this point but going forward there not a lot I can do at this point. He has already signed the lease lock himself into a year. At this point my greatest expectations are to make sure my children and myself are taking care of. Hopefully at some point it just balances itself out. I am not going to let this situation consume me. I going to take one day at a time and go from there. Thank you! Do you have any insight on this.
Sincerely sasseyholmesSeptember 9, 2020 at 7:44 am #366433
Thank you! for getting back to me. Yes we have been keeping peace in the house as we now we have to for our children. We are sleeping separate from each other I am seeing a licensed therapist. That has help a lot and has keep me calm in so many different ways. Reading different things has also help me out. At one point we talk about is separation, and he gets his own place. I ask him to wait for I could figure out our finances and he went a head a sign a lease to his new place and it a year lease so he is lock into that. That concern me because he didn’t even seem like it matter or cared who he hurt in the long run. I feel like he keeps putting his own feeling out there and doesn’t care about his family. He makes irrational decisions without even thinking about what he is doing this is been going on for a long time. And if it and if it falls apart I am left to pick up the pieces and fix the family. So all the burden falls upon me and I don’t know how much more I can take. Is there any advice you could give me.
Sincerely sasseyholmesSeptember 8, 2020 at 6:23 pm #366343
I have just recently signed up for this. I love all the quotes and daily reminders. I am in need of some advice. I have been Married for 13 years. I just recently found out that my Husband has affair. I am so angry and upset and I have so many different emotions and feelings going on in my head. Not sure what to do. This not his first time, but this time around he took it all the way. The frist couple of times he was just talking with other women and saying stuff that a marry man shouldn’t be saying. I know for me the trust is not there any more. I just dont know if I can be with him any more. If this will ever be ok. Always have issues with trust and how to go on. We have 2 children together and they are teenagers now. I am just so confused and not sure what to do. Is there any advice that you can give me. Thank you!