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  • #155108
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    Thank you for your response and helpfulness Anita.

    #155078
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    Hi Staples, thank you for your post. Both my partner and I are in counseling on an individual and in marriage counseling. The post above does not adequately express the work I and her have done since the affair ended last August. Am I anxious? Yes. Is she? Yes. We have worked together to help each other’s own insecurities and anxieties. I get that infidelity creates a whole new marriage and we are working to figure out what that looks like. We are committing to working through our issues individually and together. Since the affair happened, my father passed in late February and life is changing in a lot of other ways as well. We are both trying to work through our own issues, healing together and individually. I feel like it is important to focus on ourselves and each other and that works for us. One affects the other, in my humble opinion.

    #155056
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    I definitely do not agree with once a cheater always a cheater, but in his case, he has done it twice and goes back and forth between ‘loving you’ and then moving on to another relationship. My advice to you is to let him be and go, your relationship with him is giving you more grief than love and that is not healthy for you at all. I am so sorry this happened to you and you deserve more than what he did to you.

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