Ps. My mum knows me better than anyone on the planet and tells me over and over it will never work between us!I need to accept this but I just can’t seem to!!

Thankyou so much. My daughter is being very open with me as I am,like you suggested,making a huge effort to just listen.
She is confused and feels really bad that he is sending her constant messages and phone calls asking if she will confirm the relationship is over or is it that she just needs space!!! I don’t understand how he just doesn’t see that he has committed the ultimate crime and physically hurt another person!!
She asked me to hold onto her phone yesterday because she felt tempted to confirm,by text,it was over but from past experience, she knows this will only lead to him persuading her for another chance.
I’m annoyed that his mum has also contacted my daughter because her son is upset!!! I’m sure he hasn’t told her what he did to my daughter! His mum is being pleasant but that just adds more pressure to my daughter. Very frustrating!
I want to contact her myself and explain that I could have easily gone to the police about her son assaulting my daughter! She needs to leave her alone!

My daughter believes she deserves to be treated this way,she feels her dad never made her feel loved or important!
I tell her over and over how beautiful,smart and amazing she is.How proud I am of her,she has overcome so much in her young life…she is brave,determined and strong…so so sad she just doesnt see it!!

Wisejo,
I found this video VERY helpful,I really appreciate the recommendation.
Thankyou x

He didn’t turn up,contact me or anything! He is now hostile towards me and has no time for me.
I accept it’s over but I am so shocked how someones feeling can change so dramatically in such a short time.
I am so annoyed at myself for not putting in more effort and the 110% he put into us.The massive regret I will have in life!
Anita,you have truelly been my lifeline in all this,thankyou so much for allowing me to vent. You have supported me so much and I can’t tell you how much I have appreciated it xx

How does this sound? X
I feel I’ve had to write you this email because you never allow me to finish what I say,you talk over me and don’t allow me to have my own opinion.
I’m hurt and bitter because you gave me empty promises. You weren’t truthful in many ways also.you have dismissed me and cast me aside now,that isn’t the behaviour of someone who had genuine care and feelings for me!
You say you are still angry with me! You dwell on things far too long! I didn’t physically or mental hurt your daughter,she wasn’t even fussed whether I made it to see her or not,I will not carry that gulit around with me.

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