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  • in reply to: Rejection #102556
    Shelly
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    Thankyou so much for taking the time to respond.you make so much sense, I really appreciate your input.xx

    in reply to: Rejection #102530
    Shelly
    Participant

    Ps. My mum knows me better than anyone on the planet and tells me over and over it will never work between us!I need to accept this but I just can’t seem to!!

    in reply to: Got lots to do today – #100134
    Shelly
    Participant

    Hi there
    I just wanted to say,I always read your posts and I find them very inspirational,thank you

    in reply to: My daughter is in a toxic relationship! #96876
    Shelly
    Participant

    Thankyou so much. My daughter is being very open with me as I am,like you suggested,making a huge effort to just listen.
    She is confused and feels really bad that he is sending her constant messages and phone calls asking if she will confirm the relationship is over or is it that she just needs space!!! I don’t understand how he just doesn’t see that he has committed the ultimate crime and physically hurt another person!!
    She asked me to hold onto her phone yesterday because she felt tempted to confirm,by text,it was over but from past experience, she knows this will only lead to him persuading her for another chance.
    I’m annoyed that his mum has also contacted my daughter because her son is upset!!! I’m sure he hasn’t told her what he did to my daughter! His mum is being pleasant but that just adds more pressure to my daughter. Very frustrating!
    I want to contact her myself and explain that I could have easily gone to the police about her son assaulting my daughter! She needs to leave her alone!

    in reply to: My daughter is in a toxic relationship! #96659
    Shelly
    Participant

    Thankyou Anita,I would really appreciate your input xx

    in reply to: My daughter is in a toxic relationship! #96627
    Shelly
    Participant

    My daughter believes she deserves to be treated this way,she feels her dad never made her feel loved or important!
    I tell her over and over how beautiful,smart and amazing she is.How proud I am of her,she has overcome so much in her young life…she is brave,determined and strong…so so sad she just doesnt see it!!

    in reply to: Can I change? #96091
    Shelly
    Participant

    Thank you Sam wise, yeah I am taking care of my wellbeing.I don’t have contact with him now.
    I was the nightmare, I was hard work, I had tantrums and I demanded too much attention. I’ve learnt a lot about myself and will avoid ever being like that again.I will also choose someone more suitable to me, a major thing.
    thank you for your concern, it means a lot x

    in reply to: Can I change? #95810
    Shelly
    Participant

    Wisejo,
    I found this video VERY helpful,I really appreciate the recommendation.
    Thankyou x

    in reply to: Can I change? #95293
    Shelly
    Participant

    Thankyou Anita for asking.
    I’m doing really well. I am staying busy and positive.This forum helps me daily look forward.
    I’m so sad about my break up,I adored him and loved him with all my heart but I am now excited about my future.
    I have no family here and only a small group of friends,your help has really been a lifesaver.
    Thankyou so much xx

    in reply to: Can I change? #95090
    Shelly
    Participant

    He didn’t turn up,contact me or anything! He is now hostile towards me and has no time for me.
    I accept it’s over but I am so shocked how someones feeling can change so dramatically in such a short time.
    I am so annoyed at myself for not putting in more effort and the 110% he put into us.The massive regret I will have in life!
    Anita,you have truelly been my lifeline in all this,thankyou so much for allowing me to vent. You have supported me so much and I can’t tell you how much I have appreciated it xx

    in reply to: Can I change? #93920
    Shelly
    Participant

    Anita,thankyou so so much for all your help and support,I can’t tell you how much I appreciate it.
    I didn’t send the email in the end,i wanted to sit on it for a couple of days before I did.
    Out of the blue he has been texting loads saying he’s missing me and can we make it work!?! Total shock,I was mot expecting that. He’s asked me to meet him on friday! I would have A LOT of changing to do!! Really don’t know if I can do it! I’ve been looking at mindfullness videos,maybe if I could just relax more that could help with my jealousy and possesiveness!! Not sure if I want something full on again for now either! Just getting over my heartbreak! Do I want to go through it all again! Xx

    in reply to: Can I change? #93594
    Shelly
    Participant

    How does this sound? X
    I feel I’ve had to write you this email because you never allow me to finish what I say,you talk over me and don’t allow me to have my own opinion.
    I’m hurt and bitter because you gave me empty promises. You weren’t truthful in many ways also.you have dismissed me and cast me aside now,that isn’t the behaviour of someone who had genuine care and feelings for me!
    You say you are still angry with me! You dwell on things far too long! I didn’t physically or mental hurt your daughter,she wasn’t even fussed whether I made it to see her or not,I will not carry that gulit around with me.

    Sent from my iPad

    in reply to: Can I change? #93541
    Shelly
    Participant

    Thankyou Anita you make so much sense. I have put an email together for him but I’m not sure if I should send it. I had to get it off my chest how dismissed I feel and cast aside,how I feel he made empty promises and that he wasn’t truthful with me. He talks over me,allows me little opinon and I thought it was a way that he would have to listen and realise he has actually done some damage.Am I being too harsh towards him?should I just try to let my anger and bitterness go?
    Thanks so much again for all your support,you have helped me so much xx

    in reply to: Drowning in my loneliness. #93484
    Shelly
    Participant

    Oh my gosh,I could have written this post…this describes me so well. I have a very small group of friends,that only works because they don’t put pressure on me to meet up etc,we are more casual. I have my 2 daughters and being honest,that is all I need.Although now they spend less and less time at home I have been feeling really lonely. When I actually make the effort to do things with friends I clock watch and just can’t wait to get back home!
    I feel quite miserable.lol. I’m hoping to meet someone that understands and accepts the way I am..

    in reply to: Letting Go #93401
    Shelly
    Participant

    This was such an inspirational post..it’s really making me think! Thankyou for sharing this and so happy you are now at peace x

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