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    Shini
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    OMG you are the best!

    Thank you so much, Anita. I appreciate your words. And yes, you’ve answered me beautifully. I understand now.

    Thank you 😀

     

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    #354752
    Shini
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    Hi Anita,

    You’re so right. Why am I expecting emotional support and consolation from the same person who hurt me. I never thought about that. Thank you!

    There’s one more thing that’s bothering me. Do you think we should not expect anything from our partner? If yes, why and if no, how to know the limit?

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    Shini
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    Hi Anita,

    Thank you for replying.

    He apologises and consoles me after scolding me out of anger.

    But if he think I’m wrong, he don’t do it. Like for example, we’re arguing about something. And I say something and it turns out to be wrong. He calls me stupid and asks me to shut up and listen to him because he knows better. And I do listen to him.

    But me being sensitive, I easily get offended by his words. He will not console me in this case because I was wrong and he was right. Even if I tell him these words kinda affects me, he doesn’t really care. He says, that’s not his problem. He says it because I behaved like that. So he use those words.

    Also whenever I confront him about the way he treats me, he will say I do it because you did this. Like he blames me for everything.

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