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    No one can tell you what the right thing or best thing to do is. But the way I see things is that if you are having these thoughts then it is a sign that you should break up. what’s the point in dragging it out and knowing that it’s probably going to happen at some point. Also.. you are in your 20’s when there is so much living and fun to be had! Of course.. it is extremely and deeply upsetting to break up with someone who you become so close to, but I think unless you are totally head over heels in love with one another then there really is no point in staying together. People grow apart.. it is totally normal. This is what I have come to learn, and I am really listening to my gut. It doesn’t mean it is easy, but there is something very empowering about taking charge of your own life and future. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.

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    Thank you all for your insight. Now that it’s been a week since the initial chat and I am less consumed with direct and painful emotions I can see clearly that this is decision I have to make and want to make. The tough part is living together and staying in the same bed for the next few months before he flies home… It will also be a hard time as he is trying to make me change my mind and so is his mum – but thank you all for reaffirming to me that this is my decision and I am entitled to it.

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