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    sleepyocean
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    Dear Humanoid/Tim,

    Thank you for adding your thoughts to this post of mine! I didn’t think anyone would respond to this thread anymore, but I felt the need to return and re-read the responses others have left already.

    I like your advice about giving the business a go for half a year, and then re-evaluating if things are working out, or not working out. I’m aiming to quit my 9-5 in early January 2018. Excited yet scared still, but I feel it’s something I need to do. And I feel like I’m nearly ready, or at least more ready than when I first posted about this.

    I’ve learned so much in the past few months, and a lot is happening within the next month that I hope will bring me more clarity and confidence.

    But you are right–I don’t want to lie on my death bed with regrets of not pursuing something I felt so compelled to do. Again, thank you for your words.

    #165324
    sleepyocean
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    Dear Steph,

    Thank you for sharing your story. It’s great you have short term goals in place and know what you need to do before starting your business. I think I need to work on the emotional side of things as financially I think I’m ready. September will be a game changer for me as there will be a lot going on and a few “tests” to see if my business gains any traction.

    Good luck with your goals and thank you again for your thoughtful words.

     

    #157788
    sleepyocean
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    Dear PearceHawk,

    I am grateful for all opinions and yours is certainly welcome too.

    Interesting point about learning instead of earning. It struck a chord because I do feel I have more to learn. Knowledge is power as they say. Perhaps the more knowledge I acquire regarding the business, the less fearful I will be about quitting.

    Appreciate your advice–thank you for taking the time to respond. It means so much.

    #157766
    sleepyocean
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    Dear anita,

    Thank you so much for this thoughtful reply. The analogy of the car makes so much sense. The “stop and go” describes my dilemma and conflicting feelings exactly.

    I have never thought about a fear management plan, but I will look into this further. Do you know of any resources for this? Or where I could find more information?

    Thank you again.

    #157710
    sleepyocean
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    Hello Anita. Thank you for your quick reply.

    Yes, I would say fear plays a huge part in me not giving notice. It all ties into the fear of losing reliable income, flexible work and vacation hours, and health benefits. Basically fear of the unknown too.

    But if I’m honest, I have enough savings to last me at least 6 months to a year where I wouldn’t have to worry about not being able to pay the bills.

    I do have plans on how I can replace that stable income with my business goals. I guess I haven’t taken action on them as much I would like due to a lack of confidence, and excuses like not having the time, motivation, or energy.

     

     

     

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