Hello my darling it s Kat again. You said you are going to stay for some time and than maybe consider to leave. Make plans and decisions and take actions how you re going to leave, if ……this coming months prepare yourself bit financially you will need to move out so do not leave things to the last moment. Think how you would manage without him let s say maybe you need to find some extra work etc anything  making sure you ll be fine as breaking up it s enough stressful  itself so make it all easier …if you think ahead ………make plans before it all happens  and write inamaria30@gmail.com  also privately please how you are

Dear curious soul

Please consider your situation carefully it is your life with years to come. Little steps even matters as affect …if you go physical with your friend your marriage never be the same taking under consideration you stay with your husband. If I can advise Give yourself longer time but make these decision carefully think what you truly feel and want. What future you could have with both of them as all matters your happiness finances general life security. You cannot just think about chemistry if life with your husband like you said is absolutely ok because you could regret it very much in the future. Take under consideration all aspects of both relationships,for longer time it seems like you cannot keep both and it is really about good choice correct choice. Think what categories in relationship make you most happy choose a man is able to give it to you but than take also you will need to take  all consequences of your choice are you happy to do it ? I m here for you KAT