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  • in reply to: Should I stay since we’ve been together for 7 year? #145189
    Kat
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    Hello my darling it s Kat again. You said you are going to stay for some time and than maybe consider to leave. Make plans and decisions and take actions how you re going to leave, if ……this coming months prepare yourself bit financially you will need to move out so do not leave things to the last moment. Think how you would manage without him let s say maybe you need to find some extra work etc anything  making sure you ll be fine as breaking up it s enough stressful  itself so make it all easier …if you think ahead ………make plans before it all happens  and write inamaria30@gmail.com  also privately please how you are

     

    in reply to: Should I stay since we’ve been together for 7 year? #145133
    Kat
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    My dear

    I am myself in a difficult relationship my partner always experience difficulties with stress management takes it out on me very often. Recently he lost his job.. and again very argumentative picking on everything so I understand your problem. I really think same exactly like you …. stay or stop as sometimes becomes a nightmare. My Alan like your boyfriend also when he s good he s better than honey comfort me .. looks after financially too. I am scared …next time when he goes off the rails you know. If you feel same way you should probably make the move away …. I already started acting …we live together but now he s going to.work away from home. Your relationship is long 7 years but believe me if it happened even once and he was sort of aggressor it will come back in the future. With me … every time anything stressful comes along … KAT

    in reply to: Difficult Situation #144939
    Kat
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    Dear curious soul

    Please consider your situation carefully it is your life with years to come. Little steps even matters as affect …if you go physical with your friend your marriage never be the same taking under consideration you stay with your husband. If I can advise Give yourself longer time but make these decision carefully think what you truly feel and want. What future you could have with both of them as all matters your happiness finances general life security. You cannot just think about chemistry if life with your husband like you said is absolutely ok because you could regret it very much in the future. Take under consideration all aspects of both relationships,for longer time it seems like you cannot keep both and it is really about good choice correct choice. Think what categories in relationship make you most happy choose a man is able to give it to you but than take also you will need to take  all consequences of your choice are you happy to do it ? I m here for you KAT

     

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