I have been following this thread and I am shocked and amazed at all the brave women. I too, have a broken heart from an Indian boyfriend. He was perfect. He made my life better just by being in it and being himself. I fell for him fast and he was so 100% all about me. He would cook for me, take me out, hold my hand, protect me, look after me, keep my safe, tell me that he cared only for making me happy and would do anything to stay and be with me. Then he told me he is in love with an Indian girl here in USA who has been in a relationship with someone back home for 6 years. So, he thinks she will marry the other person. And, knows his mom would not approve of me as a blonde white girl even though I’m an Engineer with amazing job, I’m beautiful, and I take care of him- I am any American mans dream. American men have never treated me the way he does. I am devastated. Even with this horrible situation (he does not want to see me again all of the sudden even though I love him) this is still the best relationship I’ve ever had. I don’t know how to move on and I don’t think anyone will ever measure up to him. I would appreciate any kind words. And, I can not believe Indian men like this are so staggeringly common. How does loyalty to a mother trump love. And, how does an Indian man who values loyalty (like a loyalty like me to him) choose an Indian  girl who emotionally cheated? I would never do this to him.