Dear Anita,

Amazing one!!!

Yeah I don’t want to be like somebody especially slay queen with their slay Kings as well who gave birth to children and leave them on streets.

Raising a small a child like Christopher Agoth,  is a serious work and this need commitment from the both parents but if one parent to co-operate , the one remain just has to put more effort and try to nurture your child in a well manner ways.

I know my dad was not educated neither a businessman like my father in-laws who treated his children in a soft way until they all become useless as per now. My dad nurture me to be who I’m today and I’m proud of him. Hence I know the right of someone thou. Does my estranged wife knows someone’s right?  The answer is very simple;  it is a “NO ” DOES she respects others people like they way I respect her family relatives in general?  It is also still NO.

She abuse my parents including my late mother that passed away 7 years ago,  and she never see my mother in person but she is my mother was a prostitute mixing men like DJ!  That was her abuse through text message sometimes back.

My mother was a clean and smart woman who used to respect everyone and respect me particularly. I respect her thou I wasn’t there during her funeral day those days.

But funny thing is;  I was dating my estranged wife,  my late mother heard of her and my mom love me so much those days, she ask me I was told that you are dating one of the girl and I said yes! Literally my estranged wife continuously communicate with both mom and a Dad saying I’m your son wife!

By that time I was in boarding school,  during my last year in my Hight school, in the month of October my mom,  was caught up by sickness and unfortunately my twin brother was not available in the city only our elder brother!  Thus when she was almost to die!!!  Most curse something that tell my son Gregory,  when he came back from his final exam in his boarding school that your mom said,  you should n’t leave this girl who always talked to ME. That I should marry her to be my wife. But I wasn’t intended to marry her because of her immoral characters. But since I heard the last word of my mother,  I was wordless to say anything. Why did mom comments such a word to an evil girl that her mother do witchcraft things??? Let her go now. I will see her on this earth.

I know myself,  no matter how many years I will take again without seeking for marriage,  I will still look for the super star girl and also from High class family.

My estranged wife with her mother are milking a dead cow!

They men the runs too ain’t capable to overcome me!

God is there for me and for my son!  I just want my son to be the best son but not to be like her mother which school has definitely defeated her.

I still say I wanted to be a caring and a good father and caring husband too to somebody’s daughter that I will get again!

Thanks Anita.

Greg.

“Dear Gregory: Please explain to me as clearly as you can the following: 1) How often do you talk to your son on the phone/  online? 2) How often do you visit him in person, and how long does each visit last? 3) Who is he living with and how is he being treated there??? 4) Why is your son and you not living together someplace (away from Juba and his mother)? 5) Is there a plan for your son to be living with you anytime in the future?”

Dear Anita,

This is the interesting and genuine topic today to talk about so that you can give me clear way of this.

1. I talked with him on the phone once in a week but he doesn’t talk clearly to tell me what he is missing or lacking for. Sometimes he fear to talk me over the phone until I sweet talk him to be happy and tell me what he wants. On the other hand,  I’m confused sometimes when he doesn’t talk well to me is to becoz I’m far away from him or not. I just heard from the aunt that your son say he need bicycle and sneak and I promised him when I come soon I will buy him his bicycle.

Qn 2.

I visited him in February when schools were opened,  I went there to take him to his school where I paid $1000 baby class. I only spend 3days with him and left bcoz I was need back from the work place in SSCAA (south Sudan Civil Aviation Authority). Anita,  due to lock down it has make things hard to go there to visit him. Not bcoz lack of finances but there was no way to go there again.

Qn2(a).

I last visit him in February,  until up-to Now I never see my son again. Now the lock down is being lifted Iam going there to him this coming week by Wednesday.

Qn3.

He is living with maternal my aunt (the wife to my uncle, brother to my own  mother ) and he is living in the same house with some other kids in the house. Whose their father is also working with UNMISS in  Wau. And in the same house there are girls  living him and the elder girl is the one taking cared of him so much. I do asked some of the people who go to the house to see them, to give me his health care, and how the treated him as a baby!!!  But they always give me concrete statement that he is being treated well among others kids.

Qn 4.

This is my plan now to go there once and for all to live with him in the same place. Because I’m going to school to complete some rating and add on some hours.

Also I’m confused because I’m going to Poland and I don’t know what I’ll do to my son since he left again alone and perhaps I’m not going to come back soon until I finish.

Qn 5.

Yes I’m planing to live with him when I come back after I finish my flying school with some rating of (FK50). This is where I will be able to be with him in the same house but with some measures to put across.  He will come back from boarding school and go straight to me where we can live together. That is when the give him holiday,  I will always tell him to come to me and when the holidays is over  I will send him back to boarding school again.

That is all my plans. U can now give me your suggestions.

Cheers.

Dear Anita,

It is a fake life ever. My estranged wife has been been in one school ever since we were in Uganda – Kampala. In a year has 3 terms and that is three schools in a year. She could change from here to there.

Dear Anita,

My estranged wife,  went to a nursing school and yet she never finish her high school. She doesn’t have any certificate of any grade. She only finish primary which is grade 7. She is a school drop out since 4 years ago.  Now I was told she has commenced her diploma of nursing school yet she has any certificate to qualify her for diploma. She has made bribery to registar imagine.

What kind of education is that?

Dear Anita,

😂 😂 in the real truth,  shame on the both ladies that are trying to fight with right of people and my own truth openly.

It is signify act on their own interests but the reality is;  the truth shall stand out by itself. I have left everything they want. The head of cattle (cows) I had married her are being used to married other 4 wives which in their house now and I’m just being used up. Trust me God will never stand with them whenever they tried hardly to look for another man.

My cows will fight on my behalf all days and all night.  I’m sober enough Now. Crisis will never pass my zone and defeat will never come in front of me.

Glory be to God.

Gregory.

Dear Anita,

Sometimes life is unpredictable and predictable,,,,  they assume that I will be useless my estranged wife always say which I will never be God wishes. When a soldier is going for a war zone is always prepared with well equipped makes sure he has enough bullets as a reserved. I’m capable enough to overcome anything they might apply whether jujus or which is witcraft they are good at.the power of God will never led me down.

I will be ready to reach to my destination especially my goal to achieve with my son. It will be literally paining in their heart that why did I go that far.

At the juncture they wish me to be vulnerable and become a begger which never happens in the eye of God.

I married her with one heart without looking outside for some other ladies. But she kept cheating me. God forbid this woman.

She is soon gonna regret in life. In this earth life will never be cheat. I’m also fade of their people who kept on begging me as if I still have their girl and they all know she left long time ago. Shame on them.

Gregory.

Dear Anita,

Thank you for the suggestion you had put across. It a positive one and I see it will help me in this way. In this life,  if you don’t have people who hate you then,  u won’t go further. But the more you have  challenges in life the more you become stronger. I don’t worry about their words they said about me.

Before I even knew what you was studying God whispered “presidential” to me. May God keep you and guide you all the days of yours life Anita,.  May the enemy never hinder you if your is to lead the country you are  in the future. I come into agreement if this is what you’re headed for! In Jesus name, you will heal and change people whenever you may go. You WILL do.. God’s work all the day of life and you and generations that will follow you will be blessed because of your obedience. Most of the people of this forum love you so much Anita. God didn’t whisper , you had a very clever feeling and u are right, you are  very much that sort of woman I agree.
All praises to your parents who raise you up this wonderful blessed mama Anita  . So inspiring that you’re not only the brightest so far amongst your batch but you’re the boldest servants of the Lord. You become adviser in all sort of lives now. You ain’t no longer a young one for birthday to be fixed date when to do your birthday….
“no more birthdays parties no more gifts moving forward. Mr. Muwonge Head Master of BUDDO SS where I was in my High school used to say; “to be at the top, you must have been at the bottom” I have seen that in you Anita.  When the cock crows it don’t mean 6times, it means time to wake up.” so I have waken up for this people and the estranged wife too.

God be with you.

Gregory.

Dear Anita,

My elephant,  my Lion 👑 haha 😂.

You are like king Solomon,  the wises man on earth.

Wapi mean where.  That is in kwashili.

People say I’m changed due to that I don’t talk reality and that when I promise someone to him or her and failed to help him or her on time they will begin to misbehave and back bite me,  that I have lie to him. You have seen this pandemic virus has control everything in the world wide where one is able to help someone but hard to do it on time.

It is not a worried to me because God knows how I will be , hence he will be there for me to support me on my path to overcome all the challenges to bring target into reality.

With more details I can still elaborate more to you as we continue to communicate here.

God bless you Anita.

Gregory.