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  • June 25, 2017 at 8:07 am in reply to: Love or Infatuation? #154894
    tidalwave
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    To anita

    Thanks for answering

    The Romeo and Juliet story is indeed kinda similar to ours. We are young, our families hate each other. But I trust my parents , and I know, that they want only the best for me. They helped me to see more clearly this situation.

    At one hand it feels like pure infatuation. But there was a thing that made me think that it is not just a crush.

    When we were together I didn’t think about my feelings at first. I knew he had troubles in life and I wanted to make him a bit happier while giving him this closure and affection. This feeling made me happy too. But for a while…

    With time I understood that he was really idealising me and our future. He felt good , but didn’t think about my feelings. And I don’t really made him feel that I don’t like what is going. But he often wanted to hear what I feel , and what I think about doing next. And i just was silent. And said nothing. Because my intuition gave me always a bad feeling but making him happy seemed more important…

    The situation in past is not a story, which I really want to bring to the Internet. But what i can say – we trusted them and they betrayed us with money.

    June 25, 2017 at 7:50 am in reply to: Love or Infatuation? #154888
    tidalwave
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    To Eliana

    Thanks for answering

    He said he will pay the money back and gave me one of his credit cards. But after we had our last conversation I’ve said to him , that If you want to have your card back I will bring it to you. In his answer he didn’t say anything about the money. And later too. No words about money.

    All the time, when i as with him i got that gut feeling that this is all wrong. That doesn’t look like me. But knowing his unhappy and hard life , problems with his family, about which  I knew even before we started communicating, made me want to make him happy.When we were together I’ve had that feeling that he was happy with me.  And thats why i’ve closed my eyes on every stop signals which my intuition gave me.

    In his last message he wrote me for the first time that he loves me and somehow I didn’t have any doubt about it. But I guess having intentions like making him happy unconditionally is not enough to build a strong relationship.

    I feel like that even after all the unpleasant things, that he did and said ( he often used abusive language and wrote me when he was drunk) I am not ready to give up on him.

    What is wrong with me?

    p.s Don’t worry. You didn’t hurt my feelings for a bit.

     

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 6 months ago by tidalwave.
    June 24, 2017 at 10:27 am in reply to: Love or Infatuation? #154808
    tidalwave
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    Thanks for answering.

    But I don’t think that you really understood my post.

    You are talking about Catfishes. He is not , because as i wrote it before , i know him  for  more than a decade! The problem wasn’t in his virtual and real identity. The problem was that he took money from me.

    I am questioning myself . Does it look like pure infatuation or  could it be love, and if it could, than maybe it is worth fighting for it…

    • This reply was modified 7 years, 6 months ago by tidalwave.
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