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  • in reply to: Struggling with waiting for an answer #361009
    weepingwillow
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    Thanks for your insight Valora, you are 100% right. I’ve been single for over 10 years, so I know how to do that well. Was just looking forward to trying something new 😉 Maybe I’ll get that chance now, but I will be fine either way.

    weepingwillow
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    Thanks IJ! I will try to let go and see what happens. He knows me, I know him, and you are right: he will find a way IF HE WANTS. In the mean time, I will be happy with what is there, because it is something really great.

    I hope you have been able to find peace in your situation. I wish you all the best.

    weepingwillow
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    Chad, thank you so much for your honest, direct words. You really held a mirror up. I’ve been trying to release expectations and be happy he is happy, but I can see that I ‘me, myself and I’ have always snuck in there too. No, I don’t want to lose him, just our simple communication makes me too happy – friendly or otherwise. I will try to step back, enjoy our bond and not expect more, because it’s actually quite great as it is.

    And by the way, keep up the non-sugarcoated approach. It was not judgmental at all and really helps.

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