I registered just to be able to leave you my thoughts on this. Have you considered him saying he’s going to stay single was just a way to try throwing a guilt trip on you? I think you definitely have the right idea by trying to send him positive reinforcement, just so you know you tried, but that your focus should be exploring other parts of life right now too. Whether you get back together with him, or meet someone else to be with, I’m sure you’ll super appreciate this time that you’re taking for yourself!