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zaicaParticipantam i so selfish? depriving my husband of the time he should be spending time with his son? is it wrong for me to want another place to call our home? away from his family?
zaicaParticipantthank you Sat Nam… 🙂 … im praying to God to make it possible.. for now i just have to survive each day that he’s not with us… i dont know you that much.. but i can say now that i admire you… for being strong… just managing to be sane after what happened is an achievement, for me that is..:)….i dont have someone close to me that is a single mom… so im really grateful to have met you…
yes the pain is so much…i even gone through the time when all i can manage to swallow is just water.. nothing more… thankfully i can already eat now…
im happy to hear that you are not alone there…God is still good… i pray for your strength and peace of mind…
zaicaParticipanti dont know how hurt you are right now.. but i hope you can pull through.. maybe that’s why i came across your article, to know that there are other single moms out there.. either by choice or not… the first night i went through without my husband was something i wouldn’t want others to feel.. it was simply so painful that being insane was an alternative.. but i couldn’t do that bcoz my little angel needs me to be strong..u… i hope you have friends and family to pull you through right now..
zaicaParticipanthi..recently had a fight with my inlaws.. then my husband didnt come with me and my son when we left their house.. my family got me back.. my husband said sorry when we were at the airport but it was already too late…. my family hates him so much upto now… we managed to meet after a month i felt that he really wants us back.. i miss him.. but i told him my family told me to forget all about him for good.. i tried..for a couple of weeks i tried to let him go.. but i just cant do it with my sanity intact..i felt myself slipping away when i tried to forget about him.. my family would help me to stand up again on my own..with one condition. that i completely let go of him.. it makes me feel so sad and hopeless.. whenever my husband and i communicate i also feel guilty bcoz i know im doing it on my family’s back…i really love him still.. i want our family to be whole again.. but im not sure my own family will permit it…
zaicaParticipantstill waiting for the call.. please pray for me.. so i can have that job.. it would help me a lot to my life… my family is growing adamant as time pass.. they told me that there would never come a time that they will accept my husband back.. and here i am hoping that a day will come that they’ll be able to forgive him… he wants to visit us but i told him it’s not yet the right time.. and the money he’ll spend he should just save it first for the time that our family can really be whole again… but my family is seeing his absence as irresponsible. my friends are angry aT HIM too.. said i should give him a hard time to win us back…and i feel are growing tired of hearing me telling them that i feel so confused and lonely… my family wouldn’t hear me out and gets angry evrytime they see me crying…if not for my baby.. and if i really could afford to sustain his needs now i should have left long time ago…
zaicaParticipantthanks BR… just finished reading the articles….:)
zaicaParticipanthi kaitlin
think back… was there an incident during your childhood years that stood up that may have triggered these anxiety attacks? do you have friends? people you feel comfortable with? are you close to your family?have you talked about your anxiety attacks with your family? or anybody close to you? you need to be aware first what’s causing these attacks so you can find a solution for it…
i hope and pray you’ll do fine..
zaicaParticipanthi denise!!
you don’t know what to say? or you know but you don’t know how they will react that’s why you just don’t say anything?… i’ve been guilty of doing the same thing most of the times…it comes with the desire to please others… haha… hi matt!! i think you’re the one who said that to me…
i think you should start small.. watch the tv, read the newspapers… then start a conversation about things you’d like to know more about… start with people you feel comfortable with.. you just need to practice. just bear in mind that each of us is entitled to his or her own thoughts… therefore respect what they have to say.. it goes the same thing to what you have to say too..
goodluck!!!..
zaicaParticipanthello matt… thank you for asking.. i want to be independent in every sense.. financially, emotionally..i just want to be able to stand on my own..
i know my family mmeans well.. they’re just thinking about my future.. they said they can never forgive my husband and his family for hurting me…
i want my husband back.. i miss him so much. when we met again after the incident i still felt the love between us…
zaicaParticipantthank you inky for your time.. i really appreciate it.. i just want to hear out unbiased advise for a change.. thanks so much..
zaicaParticipanthi elle… going through the same thing too.. somewhat… so i was curious to read your entry… helped me a lot too, just reading through all the enrtries.. thank you for sharing what you went through….
i watched a movie years before.. “he’s not just into you”…..try it please…zaicaParticipantyou’ve been through a lot.. and here i am thinking im nearly going crazy with my predicament…..
have you tried pampering yourself? even just a bit? a manicure? or a pedicure?. things that will make you feel good.. if you cant bring yourself to leave for a while… maybe you should try a little bit everyday.. do something for yourself that will make you feel good.. that’s a start right? -
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