I agree with everything Anita saying.

I tend to need justification from others before moving forward.

It’s cool to get feedback and ask others what they think. Be weary of confirmation bias.

@kl292 One small thing to add is to build a habit of chatting this out with someone. Forums is a start, but in person is always best because 1) you sort through any illogical or delusional thoughts by vocalizing everything, and 2) you get feedback faster which makes for quicker action