Hi iamfreee,

A not fun reality is that some teenaged girls will drop everything and everyone when a boy comes around. She WAS busy ~ with him! And she didn’t tell you her plans to come to the States because she just wanted to be with him ~ with no distractions! She can say “No” ~ to you!

If you do indeed see her for the trip to France, make the best of it.

But you should realize that this is NOT your “Best Friend”. You may be a best friend to her, but she is not to you. Give the title to another friend ~ one who deserves it.

Don’t dump her, but let her contact you first for a while. And don’t mention the BF. And if she mentions him, be all Neutral about it or say (Nicely) that you have to go now, catch you later!

Best,

Inky