Dear Chelle629:

You are welcome. Maybe it will help you if you give the details of those consequences, some of the details anyway so to explore more of what you can learn from and how to move forward specifically. When you are personally involved in your situation- and you are, of course- the strong emotions create a fog in the air-of-thinking, a fog I may not have and therefore, I (and others) may be able to see clearly something that is blurred to you

anita